Pataje echèk mwen (ak siksè?)

Chapo tip pou McGee's Musings kote mwen te jwenn videyo a echèk. Mèsi pou enspire pòs sa a!

Rarely do I meet a successful person that hasn't had some disastrous failures behind them. Over the years, I've learned to measure my success differently than most. I'm successful because I've got 2 fantastic children who I'm incredibly proud of and who are already showing potential well beyond my achievements at half my age.

Looking back at my life, though, I believe my success has come because of my failures – not despite them. I've got a pretty colorful history and made many bad decisions, but it wasn't until about 5 years ago that I stopped concentrating and trying to improve what I was move nan e yo te kòmanse konnen ki sa mwen te ye gwo nan. Mwen te kòmanse ki antoure tèt mwen ak jan ki jije m 'pou yo epi ki te ede m' afine konpetans mwen olye ke kritike feblès mwen.

In my wake, I've was transfere soti nan yon lekòl segondè, bustèd nan ran nan marin ameriken an, te gen yon divòs, te kòmanse yon koup la konpayi, pèdi yon kay ak relwe timoun mwen yo (de fwa). Nan lòt men an, mwen te kenbe onè-nivo klas nan kolèj, se te yon dekore ak onorab egzeyate Gòlf Gè Veterinè, te responsab pou ap grandi anpil biznis siksè, te gen yon men nan vann yon konpayi entènasyonalman, epi yo te gen yon kay ki an sekirite kòm yon sèl papa ak 2 timoun onèt e kap travay di.

I'm now fortunate enough to help run a growing company that I helped to build the original business plans for. I'm still not wealthy, nor do I care about being so. My family still lives in an apartment. Any money that I have left over each payday goes to my son's tuition or is reinvested in new ventures. As long as I have a happy family and a roof over my head, I'm one happy guy!

Si ou ta mande m 'evènman yo pi gwo sèl ki chanje lavi m', mwen gen de:

  1. Divòs mwen. Mwen te yon papa ki renmen, men mwen pa janm te montre li jiskaske mwen te fè fas ak posiblite pou pèdi pitit mwen yo. Divòs mwen mete tout lavi mwen nan pèspektiv.
  2. Demisyon mwen nan yon konpayi. Apre bati revni nan yon konpayi lokal ki te koupe tablo a, yo te mete m 'anba nouvo jesyon ki te panse mwen te yon menas epi mwen te inogire pòt la. Mwen te vin lakay mwen, mwen te chita sou kanape a, epi mwen te rele zanmi Darren Gray ak Pat Coyle.

    Pat put me to work immediately and I've never looked back. I also changed my attitude about myself and my worth to a business. I was never an anplwaye ankò, epi kontinye travay avèk ak pou konpayi ki ta anrichi lavi mwen pandan ke mwen te travay anrichi leur.

My advice to any young person is that the sooner you figure out what your strengths are and how to avoid positions or opportunities that don't capitalize on them, the sooner you'll find happiness. With happiness comes success.

7 Kòmantè

  1. 1

    Ou bliye mansyone ou se gwo nan enspire lòt moun. Sa a, nan je m ', se yon richès fantastik, paske pesonn pa ka wete l' nan men ou nan yon vòl, pa gen okenn dezas ka fonn li desann oswa pòp li tankou yon ti wonn ...

    Gran pòs! Mèsi anpil pou pataje.

  2. 3

    Ekselan pòs,

    Mwen sonje byen klè kòm yon jèn moun yo te di mwen ka fè anyen nan lavi ke mwen mete lide m 'yo. Epi pandan ke tout moun bò kote m 'te pozitif ak ankouraje; pa gen moun ki te kapab ede gide m 'ak ban m' direksyon sou kòman yo vire fòs mwen an konpetans komèsabl ak kouman pou fè pou evite pozisyon nan feblès.

    Kòm yon jèn; Mwen te yon entrovèrti ak nan jou sa a mwen jwenn rezo ak fè relasyon estratejik pou dedomajman pou karyè mwen yon defi.

    Gade tounen nan lavi mwen; Mwen pa panse mwen te gen anpil echèk retentissant paske mwen pa janm te pran okenn gwo chans ki ta ka rezilta nan siksè gwo.

    Doug, mèsi pou ban mwen anpil bagay yo reflechi sou.

  3. 5

    Doug,

    Depi mwen te rankontre ou premye fwa, ou te sèvi kòm yon enspirasyon m 'toujou ak premye dwe unapologetically mwen. Mwen si ke gen anpil moun ki ta dezyèm mwen sou sa.

    Epi, yon aswè byen bonè, di ou mèsi pou sèvis ou nan peyi nou an!

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    Li enteresan ke ou dekouvri atravè "jijman nan dife" ki kapitalize sou fòs yon sèl la se omwen youn nan kle yo nan kontantman.

    Scientists have come to a similar conclusion. You can find a series of videos and articles that delve into this notion of “happiness” isit la.

    Cheers!

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